Laughing through the changes and accepting what life has for me after retirement. My elevator might be going down, but I plan to get off on every floor, even if it's just for plumbing supplies.
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
My Retirement, Ready, Set, Don't Go
Germ Free and doing OK
Disappointed with Spring
About three weeks ago my friend Barbara and I attended the Philadelphia Flower show which this year was an exhibition of French spring gardens. The show, which is held annually is the largest in the world and covers over 33 acres. They kept to the theme and daffodils, tulips and lavender permeated the air. You entered through an Eiffel Tower structure and from there the artistry of France was combined to transport you to April in Paris.
Those who know me accept me as a flower nut who, at times, goes over the top. I am always looking for that "different" flower, the one that is new, unusual and not your ordinary plant. I search catalogs, nursery centers, flower shows, and formal gardens for that "something special". What I have learned is that sometimes they are not always what they said and photos are not always real-life; what is shown is usually more than the best-case scenario. They insinuate that plants will grow in your zone and look just like the picture, unfortunately, they don't say your garden needs to be on a south corner in Borneo on a semi-warm day, with a banana tree to the right, no wind but a light sea breeze and 4.5 worms in the soil to get that result So I have been misled a few times and been disappointed, but it is always fun growing new plants and seeing the results, good or bad, it is always an experience I am glad I tried.
After the flower show I was stoked. Unfortunately, instead of it being April in Paris, it is March in Pennsylvania. It looked like we might have an early spring as the temperatures had been in the 60's and had even sored to the 70's for a few days. Of course, we all relied on Punxsutawny Phil, our resident groundhog and the official spokesman for the coming of spring. He told us on February 2nd that it would be a short winter and we believed him. After all he, like so many of our politicians, is a rodent and lives below the earth, he would know and would not lie to us. We noticed the daffodils and crocus sprouting out of the ground and saw that as a sign that Phil was right on the money. Then, then, then, ..... cold, hail, snow, and nothing. Spring stood still. My beautiful Weeping Willow whose buds were visible and whose yellow hue was turning to light green looks the same as it did two weeks ago. Some bulbs have bloomed and I see colors of purple and pink in some neighbor's yards, but so far, nothing in mine. What happened? After thinking about it, I realized that this month in Pennsylvania is barely spring. The early warmth, so unlike normal March temperatures, duped us. We all wanted to be deceived though, we had that taste of spring in February and why should we not expect shorts and tee shirt weather in March. What is true though is that April is right around the corner and with that will come better garden weather and more outdoor time. Mother Nature knows when she is ready, I just have to have some patience.
Waiting, waiting, waiting.
So, I will plant pansies; they can survive happily in the cold. They are one of my favorite flowers and adapt well to not-so- favorable circumstances. I need to learn that lesson.